Relationships: Marriage

Why do you want to do this?

I want to do this because we have a daughter who needs two parents together in a wonderful town, and I want to make my wife happy. But ultimately I want to be happy. And for me to be happy, I need to be in love with my wife, and I haven't been for a long time. Maybe not ever. But that's going to change.

What three things will you need to make this happen?

Sexual intimacy

Emotional intimacy

A strong focus on what things I love about her rather than what things make her seem like such a stranger.

What is the biggest barrier to your achieving this?

no sex. no social life.