• Jamie O
  • Kansas City, United States

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End a Relatinoship - LENT
Relationships: Love

Why do you want to do this?

I have had an on again, off again, relationship. It's an addictive one of sorts and I can't seem to kick it. It usually happens on my way to work in the morning and my, Hostess Donuts 6-pack, calls my name and I come a-runnin'. I have enjoyed these fancy treats since I was a child. My parents would by a bag of them and I'd have a couple in the morning sometimes. As I got older and was in college, I would sneak one, two or three of these mini-delights throughout the day. Now I'm wasted $1.50 a visit for these addictive treats. I love them, and I will miss them, but they have to go. I have plateaued on my weight loss for a few months now. Part of it may be related to the fact that I've been trying to overcome my back issue and haven't been able to exercise like I was but the other part is my nasty breakfast habit.

What three things will you need to make this happen?

More time in the morning. If I could fill up on cereal and a banana, I won't even be hungry enough for these things and I won't replace them with fast food junk either. ... this means I need to get up earlier than the current 5:30ish I've been doing.

Ignorance of the "voice." These donuts have the sweetest voice right before I get them. If I manage to not pick them up, sounds of anger are heard from miles away about how my morning will not go as smoothly as it could have if I indulged in my long-lasting relationship.

Treating myself to something else once in awhile. I've managed to kick a lot of bad eating habits in my life but this one has been the hardest. I may need to fill that void with something else.

What is the biggest barrier to your achieving this?

It's hard to end a 30 plus year relationship! The biggest barrier?... not indulging in the addictive sweet that I have longed for and loved for most of my life.

3/7/2011 8:21:56 PM

Hey Mama, there's nothing wrong with indulging once in a while. Believe me,  Little Debbie and I have the same relationship. My grandfather used to ask what the magic words were and I'd say, "Hocus Pocus Dominocus" ... magically, the Little Debbie cakes would appear at bedtime snack. I love them especially at the holidays. So I hear you! 

My only advice is to find a new way to look at those treats. The only times that I've really truly wanted those sweet monsters was when I was pregnant. Since then, I've been able to turn them away only by reminding myself what foods really appeal to me. Sure, I can eat baked goods and sweets, but do I want to? No. I'd rather eat salty and spicy. If you're going to eat the wrong things, I'd rather they be foods that bring me real joy. I guess the point is, eat the way you do everything else. True to you!

3/15/2011 10:52:18 AM

Shea, I wish I could replace my baked good addiction with salty and spicy but just cannot.  My problem is that I cannot indulge with limits so I 'd rather just eradicate.  :o)  I wish my excuse was that I was pregnant...  but I think it's emotional eating.  I'm still bummed about my darn back.  It's great sometimes and other days it's down-right painful.  I'm due to another trip to the doc in a couple weeks.

In the meantime, I have to say that I haven't faltered yet.  :o)

5/7/2011 5:53:04 PM

Hi Mama! Just wondering, now that I'm a week into my own personal little "MayFit" challenge and down 4 pounds, how did you do with this one? I know how hard this one was! Hope you were successful, and if you have any tips that worked for you, do feel free to pass them along. I'd much appreciate!

5/10/2011 9:26:11 AM

Well, I was down 20 pounds from October and since the backpain (depressed + "given up") I only gained 6 back.  I failed badly on this one for lent to say the least.

I'm back and recommitted (AGAIN) to get healthier.  I started my "diet" yesterday and am committing to walking (no matter how slow it'll need to be) and yoga.  I found a GREAT link on yoga for people with low back problems http://www.bikramyoga.com/BikramYoga/Herniated_Discs.php that I plan on trying to follow.

As far as the donuts.  Both yesterday and today I just grabbed my yogurt and banana and didn't think about stopping.  The only downfall is that I need to grab a coffee...  my one-cup maker is in my office so it's hard to pull off at home.  I'll figure something out.

Another note is that since it's so nice now (well, here in the midwest we skip spring and go right into summer - it is 93 today) that we should be doing evening walks with the kids anyway.  That'll be nice.  I'll have to remember that.  ... we need a double stroller  :o/

5/10/2011 9:26:44 AM

Oh, and, I swear my Weight Watcher online.  You can get a package for 3 months...  which was about my attention span for it anyway, BUT IT WORKED.

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