Personal Development & Community: Self-development

Why do you want to do this?

Fear in my life is just a way at stopping me from achieving the goals that I want to accomplish in life and stopping me from being the man that I want to be. There is a lot in my life that I want to achieve such as picking up women, becoming a master of conflict, having a great relationship, and talking to people. By being afraid, I have limited myself and I will not be able to achieve these things in my life. Fear is a useless emotion, it is silly to think that I must fear everything. This is a huge limitation.

What three things will you need to make this happen?

Re-affirm to myself that fear is a useless emotion in my life. What is there really to be afraid? No one is gonna stop me from achieving what I want except myself. No is gonna kill me and if people reject me then so what? I still love myself. FEAR WILL STOP ME FROM LIVING TO MY FULLEST EXTENT.

DO COURAGE. FEEL THE FEAR AND DO IT ANYWAYS.

3. MEDITATION - Do the exercise where I see myself in 5 years as a man who is fearless, attractive, funny, responsible, a leader, fun guy, and successful. 4. VISUALIZE SUCCESS

What is the biggest barrier to your achieving this?

I am the biggest barrier to my success. If I feel fear then I will stop myself from becoming the man that I want to be. The best solution is to keep doing what I need to do and push myself when I feel it. Also, I will remember that fear is silly and not useful in everyday life. People around me will also be barriers. I will find people who want to see me grow and help me grow as a person.